THE SENSORY MADE SIMPLE PODCAST
with Dr. Samantha Goldman
Ep. 29. Why Your Food Introductions Aren't Going as Well as You Hoped
Introducing new foods to kids can feel like an uphill battle, but it doesn’t have to be! In this episode, we’re diving into the common reasons why food introductions might not be working and how to make them more successful. From understanding your child’s unique sensory needs to the power of repeated exposure, you’ll learn practical tips to help your child explore new flavors and textures—without the tears.

"We're so eager for children to try new things that we push them too quickly."
Ep. 29. Why Your Food Introductions Aren't Going as Well as You Hoped
The Sensory Made Simple Podcast
with Dr. Samantha Goldman
Does introducing new foods feel like a constant struggle? In this episode, we’re unpacking why food introductions might not be going as planned and how you can turn things around.
Highlights from this episode:
🎙️ Why pushing kids too quickly can lead to resistance—and what to do instead.
🎙️ How to approach new foods like climbing stairs (one small step at a time!)
🎙️ The role sensory needs and oral motor skills play in food acceptance.
Links mentioned in this episode & References:
5 Sensory Food Play Ideas
Sam's Instagram
Research Article 1
SOS Approach to Feeding
About the Host:
Being a parent of a child with sensory challenges isn’t easy. Some days, it feels like you’re walking on eggshells, unsure of what will set off the next meltdown. You’re doing everything you can, but you can’t help wondering if there’s more you could do—or if you’re missing something important.
I’m Sam Goldman, a pediatric occupational therapist and your guide in this sensory journey. I’ve spent over a decade helping parents like you understand their child’s sensory needs and find real-life strategies that actually work. My goal? To help you feel less overwhelmed, more confident, and ready to support your child in a way that feels manageable for your family.
You’re already an amazing parent, and you know your child better than anyone. This podcast is here to give you the tools to make life just a little easier—for both of you.
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Transcript
Hello, welcome back to the Food Explorers Podcast, episode number 29.
I'm your host, Sam, and I am really so glad you are here.
Over the past couple of weeks, this podcast has really started to grow, and I am so thankful you decide to spend your time here learning with me.
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Let's get to today's topic.
Sometimes introducing new foods feels downright defeating.
We all know this scenario.
You prepare a delicious meal, you're excited to introduce a new food, and you think, this will be the time they like it.
But as soon as you place it in front of them, they cry out, I don't want that, or I don't like it.
And just like that, mealtime turns into a battlefield.
I know this leaves you with the thought, why?
What am I doing wrong?
Well, there are several reasons why food introductions may not be going as well as you hoped.
Let's explore a few of them together.
Number one, we tend to jump the gun sometimes.
We're so eager for children to try new things that we push them too quickly.
It's important to remember that each child has their own unique pace and comfort level when it comes to trying new foods.
This is especially true if you are at the beginning of your journey.
Your child might still be extremely cautious and guarded.
According to the SOS approach to feeding, children gradually become more comfortable around foods in a sequence of developmental steps.
First, they need to be comfortable seeing it, smelling it, interacting with it, and touching it.
From there, they can progress to being more comfortable with the food around their face, tasting it, and biting it.
In general, this sequence is looking, interacting, smelling, kissing, licking, and then biting.
I like to think of this like walking up a flight of stairs.
Would you ask your child to jump from the first floor to the fifth floor?
No, that would be so overwhelming and really hard.
Instead, we help them go up step by step.
It's the same with new foods.
Instead of jumping right to take a bite, we can help them gradually conquer each step.
On the other hand, forcing or pressuring them to move too quickly to the top floor, a biting can lead to resistance and fear.
Imagine if someone placed a plate of an unfamiliar food, like crickets, in front of you, and demanded that you eat it.
You might feel overwhelmed or even anxious.
You'd probably want to poke it with your fork or touch it with your teeth to test it out before digging into a bite.
Children experience these same emotions when they're put under similar pressure.
So let's take a step back and give children the time they need to feel comfortable and explore new flavors and textures.
This is where sensory food play comes in.
As we discussed last week, sensory food play can be used to help children feel more prepared and ready to eat a food.
Now, before we continue, I just want to remind you about an exciting resource that I've created just for you.
It's called Five Sensory Food Play Ideas to help your child become a more adventurous eater.
And the best part, it's completely free.
This resource provides practical tips and fun activities to engage your child's senses and prepare them for being an adventurous eater.
So if you haven't already, be sure to download it today.
The link is in the show notes, or go to www.drsamgoldman.com/fivedashsensory dash food dash play dash ideas.
Number two, another factor to consider is whether the food you've chosen aligns with their body.
Children have different sensory and oral motor skills, and what may seem easy for one child might be challenging for another.
Some kids may struggle with certain textures, while other may have difficulty with complex flavors.
It's crucial to be mindful of your child's current stage and adjust your food introductions accordingly.
Start with simpler foods that are familiar to foods they already know and love.
For example, if they love Cheerios, could you start introducing some change with another brand of Cheerios or a new flavor?
Gradually introduce new textures and flavors, allowing their palate to adapt and expand over time.
These really small wins add up.
Remember, it's a journey, not a race.
Number three, hits have limited exposure to new foods.
As adults, we take for granted that we can look at a food and pretty much predict what it will feel and taste like based on our previous experiences.
Children are still in the learning part of this process.
Children naturally tend to be cautious when it comes to unfamiliar foods.
This is biological.
It's not them being difficult.
It can take multiple exposures for them to become comfortable and accepting of new flavors and textures.
I personally think of all foods as an acquired taste.
Over time, our brain becomes more and more used to the flavor and texture and doesn't send out alarm signals.
Sometimes we may introduce a new food once or twice and assume they don't like it because of their initial reaction.
In fact, research shows that most parents give up after three to five times.
However, it's essential to provide repeated opportunities for them to try and experience a variety of foods.
Some children can take months or even years to become comfortable with the food.
Others can take just a couple days.
By consistently exposing them to new flavors and textures, we give them a chance to develop a taste for diverse foods over time.
Remember, every child is unique and their food preferences will vary.
By approaching food introductions with patience, empathy, and a non-judgmental attitude, we can foster a positive and healthy relationship between our children and the foods they eat.
Patience really is key here.
Rome wasn't built in a day, and neither is a diverse and adventurous palate.
Celebrate small victories along the way, even if it's just a single touch or taste of a new food.
Each step forward is progress, and every meal time can be an opportunity for growth.
Well, that brings us to the end of today's episode.
I hope you found these insights helpful and encouraging.
Remember, you are not alone in this journey.
Many parents face similar challenges, and with the right approach and mindset, you can create a positive and enjoyable food exploration experience for your child.
Thank you for tuning in to the Food Explorers Podcast.
Don't forget to download your freebie guide Five Century Food Ideas to Help Your Child Become a More Adventurous Eater at www.drsamgoldman.com forward slash five dash sensory dash food dash play dash ideas.
I'll see you back here next week.